The Importance of Self-Care For Students and For Educators!
The Importance of Self-Care For Students and For Educators! The story of the Tortoise and the Hare comes to mind as the end of the school year approaches. As counselors we can relate to the Hare because school days can feel like a sprint. We hit the ground running...
Remembering Columbine… The Day That Changed Everything
Remembering Columbine… The Day That Changed Everything 20 years ago Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold shattered the perception of safety and security we’d always assumed was part of our school campuses. A few times over the years, audience members that have seen me speak...
The Emotional Baggage Affecting Our Students & Staff
The Emotional Baggage Affecting Our Students & Staff You care deeply about educating students. You spend extra hours, read books, and even joined a closed Facebook group to get fresh info. But your students haven’t really responded, your school culture is still...
3 Simple Ways to Strengthen School Safety
3 Simple Ways to Strengthen School Safety April 20, 2019 will mark the 20th anniversary of the tragic school shooting at Columbine High School. This harrowing tale of violence in schools has played out over and over again since then, all the while striking fear...
4 Ways to Help Students Unpack Their Emotional Baggage
4 Ways to Help Students Unpack Their Emotional Baggage Being student-centered is easier said than done. Self-preservation is human nature. Thinking about one’s self is a way of survival and we have all had days in the classroom in which we feel like we are just...
Free Suicide Prevention Lesson in This Blog
Free Suicide Prevention Lesson in This Blog There are nearly 45,000 suicide completions each year here in America. It is the second leading cause of death for our high school students. Imagine if one passenger jet crashed EVERY SINGLE DAY, killing everyone on board....
Are Your Students And Staff Questioning Their Value?
Are your students and staff questioning their value? Years ago, someone really close to me told me that my effort to obtain my LMFT wouldn’t benefit TEEN TRUTH. I was crushed by that feedback, and honestly, pretty pissed off. It shook me to the point that I considered...
3 Simple Ways to Stop Teen Suicide
3 Simple Ways to Stop Teen Suicide There’s no easy way to broach the sensitive topic of teen suicide. So I will just get to the staggering statistics that clearly show the severity of the situation regarding our youth today. In 2016, according to the CDC-Centers for...
The Top 4 Ways to Build Value on Campus
The Value of Being Valued A teacher will never, ever, know the impact they have on the lives of the students in their classroom. At times, a student will come back into your life and show you, but for all of the students who have reached out, there could be many more...
An Easy Way To Connect Students On Your Campus
An Easy Way To Connect Students On Your Campus Is every student on your campus connected? If they aren’t, let’s fix that issue right now! One of the concepts that I wrote about in my book, Building Resilient Students From the Inside Out, is the idea of how ONE...
The Best Ways to Create Student Resilience
The Best Ways to Create Student Resilience Student resilience often feels like that elusive white whale we’re all chasing. We want students to handle adversity and overcome hardship, but it seems like the seas are always choppy as we work to coach them towards this...
3 Easy Concepts to Boost Resiliency on Campus
3 Easy Concepts to Boost Resiliency on Campus Remember when you tried out for the cheerleading squad and didn’t make the cut or when you got your report card and although you wanted to make it on the honor roll you missed it because of that 77 in Chemistry? How about...
6 Ways to Foster Resilient Students
6 Ways to Foster Resilient Students “Get Back Up Again” Hey!I'm not giving up todayThere's nothing getting in my wayAnd if you knock knock me overI will get back up again, ohIf something goes a little wrongWell you can go ahead and bring it on'Cause if you knock knock...
3 Easy Ways to Win Grant Money for Your School
3 Easy Ways to Win Grant Money for Your School Your budgets are tight and your bosses are asking you to do more with less. Financial struggles continue to hold your students and your school back. How can you solve these issues? There’s a simple answer that most...
What’s Your One Word for 2019?
What's Your One Word for 2019? If you’ve read my book, Building School Culture From the Inside Out, you know that I believe messaging is the surest, fastest, cheapest way to build school culture. The schools that do it well are alive with activity. The ones that...
The Most Important Part of Your New Year’s Plan
The Most Important Part of Your New Year's Plan The winter holidays have come and gone. Christmas parties and semester finals are distant memories. All the decorations are out of sight and the buzz of a new year can be felt throughout the campus. The hope is that...
A New Year’s Resolution Every Educator Should Make
A New Year's Resolution Every Educator Should Make The New Year is a time for new beginnings, setting goals and bettering yourself. My New Year’s Resolutions usually center around healthy habits, eliminating negative relationships, etc. etc. I usually do not have New...
A Big Lesson I Learned From Sitting With a Lonely Student
A Big Lesson I Learned From Sitting With a Lonely Student I’ve spoken at over 1,000 schools, reached millions of students around the world, and have obtained a masters in professional counseling. But just when I thought I had it all figured out, I learned a truly...
How To Build Empathy In Students
How To Build Empathy In Students Picture a crowded high school cafeteria on a Friday. As an educator, the image probably sends a shiver of anxiety down your spine. As you monitor the cafeteria, you notice a group of girls laughing and whispering juicy gossip to each...
How to Keep Teachers Going Through the Stress of the Season
The Weather Outside Might be Frightful, but the Fire in You Can Still be Delightful: Keeping Teachers Going Through the Stress of the Season This change in season is often coupled with anxiety and stress in the field of education. Winter break is right around the...